From unknown i user on Little Red Book:
“Location is in Issaquah， to be more obvious?”
“Unfortuo tell you， he married at least in 2017.”“Check it by yourself.”
“Why don’t you check this house address on redfin to see if this is his house? Why don’t you pare if chaichai (his pet) lives in that house?”“When you believe?”
“Property info in USA is public.”
From me:
“How to check， ’t see.”“I don’t know his house’s address.”
A copy of deed from 2017 showing that a real property located in King ty was titled to d CK’s spouse， Feng Respong， as unity property， was also sent to me by at least four unknown i users. The deed shows“Feng Jiang and CK， a married couple”.
This sshot is a copy of the deed showing the title of the unity property owned by d his wife Feng Jiang.
In this deed， it shows“Feng Jiang and CK， a married couple”“ in 09/25/2017”.
These sshots show that unknown i user informed me that CK purchased that property with Feng Jiang in 2017 as married couple， and sewo photos of his kid which he posted on Instagram.
From unknown i user on Little Red Book:
“They purchased that house in 2017 as married couple， and still live there. So， his wife knows this from beginning to end? Or she super loves， after birth to baby will attack you? You sider， white paper and black words on property deed. Married couple. Maybe they will not divorce from beginning to end， you are the only one being hurt.”
These sshots show that unknown i user sent me photos of CK’s kid which he posted by himself on Instagram.
First picture osted by him on 02/16/2023 with location Issaquah. On 02/16/2023， he approached me， asking me if my period finished. Because on 02/10/2023， he had sex with me and chocked my neck when I was in period and in pain， which caused me unbearable pain afterwards. On 02/20/2023， he said he will see me week. He also told me he went to California on 02/16/2023 with his mother to see his sister.
Sed picture osted by him on 03/13/2023 with location Issaquah， while he told me he was in California during that time.
These sshots show that unknown i user informed me that CK has married at least in 2017 a me a deed of his property.
From unknown i user on Little Red Book:
“Move on， that man married long time ago.”“I know them (Kang Dai and his wife)， they married before COVID-19， in 2017. You move on.”“His name is dk， I didn’t reize wrong?”“Chaichai I think I wouldn’t reize wrong.”“married long time ago， 2017.”“ex colleague.”“Anyway I know that he married， I’ve seen his wife， before COVID-19. don’t remember specifiove on. Anyway he married long time ago. I see he deleted his Little Red Book posts， should be found out.”
From me:
“Do you know them? Do you know whe married?”“When did you see?”
These sshots show that unknown i user informed me that CK has married in 2017， his wife has baby this year， a me a deed of his property.
From unknown i user on Little Red Book:
“I care about you after reading your story. How could you’ve been hurt so much by scumbag. I also work in Amazon， and know this man in person. Actually he married in 2017. His wife has baby this year. He is just a very ordinary and unremarkable programmer. You are student， may admire him. After yraduation， when you go to big firm， you will see many people who are excellent than him. His three values are distorted and morally corrupt， really doesn’t worth you to waste time on him. Really hope you care about your emotional situation， cheer up. Not sure what i help you， if you ell me any time.”
“This is his marriage certificate found b other people. You find it in King ty. I send you link later.”
These sshots show that unknown i user informed me that CK has married in 2017， a me a deed of his property.
From unknown i user on Little Red Book:
“This one is not marriage certificate， but this certificate says that in 2017 they were married， which could not be wrong.”“He doesn’t admit in front of the certificate， is still lying to you?”
“he will give you a fake marriage certificate tomorrow. You sear official website and found that they were married couple in 2017. Why don’t you believe?”
“If he admitted he married in 2017， then he has beeing his marriage for 6 years.”
From me:
“This is not marriage certificate?”“I asked him to show me his marriage certificate， he said will look for it tomorrow.”“Why doesn’t he admit?”
This sshot is a copy of the deed showing the title of the unity property owned by d his wife Feng Jiang. This deed was shared by unknown users around ao me.
In this deed， it shows“Feng Jiang and CK， a married couple”“ in 2017”.
I was deeply shocked， and then fell i and deep pain， when I learhat CK was at least married in 2017， and already had a child.
These sshots show that unknown i users have been discussing CK’s baby’s photos from his Instagram， and those people know him.
versatioween unknown i users on Little Red Book a:
“I found his baby’s birth photo posted by him.”
“I probably know who he is， I will ask my friend to check his“Amazon” badge photo tomorrow.”“Did you see on Little Red Book?”“Ins”“What’s his ins?”“his dog’s ins”“shibachaichaiinu”
“seems to be someone you know.”“I have been ping whole m， Indeed is.”“Hasn’t he married in 2017 and purchased house? Has baby retly?”
These sshots show that unknown i user informed me that CK has married in 2017 and has baby in February 2023，
From unknown i user on Little Red Book:
“If he is the Instagram influencer I saw， then he has baby this February. One of my friends sent me his marriage certificate. He married in 2017. If that certificate is real. I think you sue him. Use law to protect yourself. Emm. You don’t have evidence.”
These sshots show versatioween people who know d his wife.
“I am really too familiar with them”“you are at front line， mouth so tight. Really friend.”“sign， truly moral corruption. I just don’t want to make mess.”“Hmm， see how they deal with it.”“I didn’t read all. It's really disgusting to put it all together. She came to Seattle， his wife is here， he still don’t let her go.”
“his current colleague’s friends all posted on 1point3acres.. I guess they all know. ese unity is small.”
What I also learned from these i users was that CK has been very active on over 20 social media platforms， with about 100，000 followers and 30 Million plays in total， that CK attempted to establish an image of“elite single young man” on his social media， especially i groups sisting of his followers of his podcast“Talk About America after Meal”(in ese饭后说美国). His social media name used to be“Boss Dai in USA” on all social media platforms. He disclosed his WeChat tact for people to ed follow him and shared with the publiy photos of himself， his dog， and his child.
I was not an active social media user and was not aware of CK’s overall social media ats and the published tents before.
Below sshots show ents from his followers:
“He portrayed himself as elite， single man， values iy， knowledgeable， talented...”
“He set a few 500 members group o， people all think he is single. Feeling all deceived by him. His followerss don’t know he is married and has kid. Some want to introduce girlfriend to him， he never say he is married and has kid. Speechless. not sure why he hides sufo.”
“He said he graduated from college in 2015 and was 21 years old that year(now he is 29).”
“He portrayed his age as 1990s. make people believe he was born in 1994. He is too good at establishing image in his podcast.”
Exhibit 18: 04/24/2023: Kang Dai’s Blames， Death Threats， Lies， fession， Solution via WeChat Calls & Messages
On April 24， 2023， at about 2:43 a.m.， CK started to tact me o. On that single day， within about 13 hours， CK called me 13 times via WeChat， and talked to me for about 219 minutes. CK also sent me about 50 messages o.
In these WeChat calls， CK yelled at me and threatened me with his death， and our ruin together; he also threatened me that his wife might e after me and do things he would not be able to know; and he also threatehat he would release five email correspondences between us that tained intimate languages.
I was shocked by CK’s threat and fell i fear about what he and his spouse would do to me.
In these WeChat calls， CK also told me that he would not blame me for the published story; but he would report to polid sue those individual i users who searched and exposed his personal information， who criticized him online. CK also told me that my story was“stolen” by someone else on Little Red Book， and that story was all over the i because“it was randomly circulated and posted by i users.”
In these WeChat calls， CK dehat his was living at the address shown on the deed and insisted that he was not married before 2022. He again denied his name is“CK”(代抗）， and told me a different ese name. He previously denied his name as“代抗“(CK) on 03/21/2023.
In the WeChat calls， CK also requested an in-persoing with me after his return to Seattle on 05/07/2023. I refused plainly and told him I did not want to see him anymore. I clearly expressed my desire to stay away from him， especially after he threatened me in various ways.
Faced with pelling evidence， after about 20 more hours， CK finally admitted he had deceived me about his marital status“from beginning to end”. CK also apologized to me for what he did to me while blami the same time.
After apologizing o， e that I“could bring any demand” to him for pensation.
I insisted that CK make WeChat calls to me to apologize. CK refused to call and threatened me agai’s end up destroying each other like this.”
Then CK also told me that his plan was“to tinuously apologize and listen to my demands.”
At the late night of April 24， 2023， I sent a WeChat message to d made my demand: eeds to apologize to me by call; provide a written apology and explain why and where he lied to me for so many years; and provide financial pensation for the harm and loss I suffered due to his years-long lies. day I drop the request of apology， only left financial pensation.
Below are true and correct copies of WeChat unication records showing the calls and messages d I had o on April 24， 2023， and CK’s written statements.
Below are CK’s inal words:
CK’s Threaten in His Wife’s Name in Call
ese“我老婆可能会揪着你不放。我不知道她会干什么。” English:“My wife may e after you. I don’t know what she will do to you.”
CK’s Blames & Death Threatens in Call
CK yelled at me : ese”你就是要毁了我!” English:” You just want to ruin me!”
CK threatened me: ese:“你这样会导致我和你鱼死网破！”English:”Your as（post our story) will force me t both us down/ruin each other!”
ese:”（你写爱情故事为了抒发心中痛苦的“出发点不重要，我只考虑造成的结果。你已经造成了这样的结果（我和你的事情被曝光了）” English:“The starting point doesn't matter when you write your love story to release the pain in your heart. I only sider the oute you have caused. And you have caused su oute， where our relationship has been exposed.“”
ese:“需要我以死谢罪吗？”English:“Do you need me to apologize with death?”
ese:“华人圈很小。所有人都知道了，我朋友同事都知道了” English:“There are very few ese ile， the group is small. All khis. All my friends and colleagues khis.”
ese:“我感到五雷轰顶” English:“I feel thuruck(as this was revealed).”
“You caused this oute.““You created this situation.“
ese:“那我也去写，我就写你没写出来的，想怎么写就怎么写。...用你那5封邮件” English:“Then I will also write/post online， I'll write what you didn’t write， in any way I like......I’ll post the 5 emails you sent to me.”(The email tains sexual words， he used to say he liked it， he said the more I say， the more he wants to fuck me.); and ence me to say in bed.
ese:“我会报警告那些网友。我不怪你。我相信你。”English:“I will sue those individuals who searched/revealed me online. I don’t blame you. I trust you.”
From the beginning of his call， I repeatedly asked:”Are you married? When did you get married? Why did you deceive me???”
His respoh lies and manipulation:
“married/ has kid is my privacy. I don’t tell any friend about this. You ask around if you don’t believe.”“’t I have some privacy?”
“Why do you ask when I got married? What are y to do?“
“’t you have a happy versation with me?““If we 't have a happy versatio's not chat.“(when I asked him when he married， and when he called me to blame me)
“I deceived you because I don’t want to upset you， and I didn’t want to tell.”
“I am serious with you/when I invited you to stay with me.”
“If my private iion was to just sleep with you， why did I refuse you sometimes(while tinuing sleeping with me)... I could e to offid see you every day happily. I didn’t because (I like/love you)(not casual).”
“I didn't mention it (married in 04/2023) earlier because humans do not have the ability to predict the future.”” Tomorrow， I could even die.”
“I married this time (in 04/2023)”“I married in 04/2022”“I married in 05/2022”
“We had taot together(with his wife)”
“We are not always together， depending on how you defiogether (with his wife).”
“What do you mean together?”“I was with someone (his wife) sometimes， on and off”
“I am not always with someone.”“Did you always think I am single so you always wao see me?”
“I apologize I didn’t clearly tell you which month to which month I was not with someone(his wife)(from 2016-2020).”
“You buy house with anyone， o marry.”
“We(KD and I) had possibility before， but later she(his wife) gnant， we have kid now， so I told you not possible.”
“I plao apologize to you 3 months later.”“I should not blame you.”
“I caused your situation/”so called emotion”.”“I am the oo blame. I caused this result.”
I didn’t handle your emotions well….”
“ we talk face to face after I return to Seattle?”
“I am thinking how to make you feel better.”
“Give me some time， I will think about solution， how to make up for your hurting.”(I gave him time， he set all his social media private， ged name and picture. Then， there is no solution for me.)
“I don’t read your post (of love story). I have no time to report your post.”
“All of my information have been revealed， my Himalaya， Xiaohongshu， pany info， whipany， which employee...everything. They found my podcast and me， not because of your post， but because other people took sshots of your post and made new post and got high click - by yanyanyanxianxianxian...”
“I was ruined. I ’t see my friend o bapany. My family is ruined... ese population ile is very small... All of my colleagues read this. People started searg and i violene. I will call police for those people’s i violenot against you...they caused my work problem...over 10 friends/colleagues have seen...many people abused me...“
“I believe your iion was not to reveal me but just write your love story.”
“you hide your posts first， tomorrow I will tell you when I got married.”
“they said I got married at least in 2017， they don’t know me， they may reized wrong person， which is not me.”
“I have no possibility to stay ile any more.”
“at least after you hide your posts first， we discuss how to hahis issue.”
“everyoold everything about me.”
“you blame/criticize me”
“I apologize for calling you so many times”
“the influence of“I was ruined” is less than the influence/pain I caused to you”
“hide your posts first before I tell you what I lied...then there is possibility to discuss”
“many people see post from yanyanyanxianxianxian”
“another post from xiyatudengtuixiuzhuanjia”
“I feel you should feel (my heart)”
“I don’t know how to face you so I didn’t tell you I got married.”
“I was with her (his wife) again before we broke up”
“I was not just seeing you for sex”
“when I said you and I have possibilities， because I was not sure with her(his wife)”
“I haven’t seen you as enemy yet. I know you don’t see me as enemy yet because you are still talking to me.”
Exhibit 19: Online Defamation towards Me， 100000+ reviews， My Pain & Fear
Since from April 24， 2023， I started to find online posts attag me and insultih slanders and defamation. My school’s name was revealed in those posts.
Unknown i users suggested those slanders and defamation from CK， CK’s wife， and their friends.
I had no way to identify the individuals who made those posts attag me， but I was humiliated and scared by the lies and defamation in those posts. I defended myself by replying to some of those posts with evidence.
Ellen - as disclosed as CK’s wife’s friend， has been spreading a few offensive and disgusting slut-shame rumors in Amazoy Group， which had 500 members.
“She called his wife and said that she is willing to serve CK with his wife together”.
It's uain how many times these rumors have already been spread. That has caused me lots of pain and fear.
“Someone in the group said those attag ents on you seem like from his wife’s friends.”
“His wife’s friend said you called his wife and said that you are willing to serve CK with his wife together”.
I felt disgusting and deeply hurt by this.
“rumors was forwarded by Ellen， maybe it’s his wife herself”
I felt disgusting and deeply hurt by those defamation.
“She is worse than a whore.”“Whets paid. She is free.”
“She is less than a sex buddy.”
“She deserves no sympathy.”
“She is such a bitch. If man is not bad， woman will not love.”
“This ma respect her at all.”
“This guy is a scumbag/asshole. This girls is also not a good thing.”
......
Other slanders on me.
Exhibit 20: CK’s Manipulation & Revenge， My Pain & Fear
Actually I have fiven 04/24/2023. I just he truth， apology and solution from him. However， he threatened me， used me again， told me more lies， and then abandoned me without hesitation.
Even though， I still decided to move on.
However， moving on is not so easy， especially in my case. I needed closure and explanation. On 05/10/2023， after not tag CK at all for about two weeks， when I felt that huge pain again， I sent him a polite message o asking him to take responsibility for his deceptive behaviors. However， I received no respo soon found two of my Little Red Book ats reported simultaneously at around 1AM， despite the fact that I had no post at all at that time. Why was he so eager to report my at at 1AM.? What was his hidden agenda? A few days later， I realized that once again he had used his knowledge of me， and manipulated my trust， trapped me to tact him.
During the period from late April and mid-May， I tacted CK multiple times to seek for closure and solution from him. CK has kept silent; he has never given me any notice of unwanted tact. If CK wished so， he could have simply blocked me or delete me o， the most frequently used unication el between us in the past seven years. If that occurs， all my tact would not be able to gh. CK did not do that. All he did was keeping silent， promptio tact him again and again.
After I received the temporary prote order on 05/18/2023， I have realized that this was a desigactic of CK to obtain the prote ainst me to revenge me and harm my future. CK reported me to poliay 1， 2023 with lies， and Police firmed that there is no threat. He actually started colleg“evidence” planning to revenge me at least from 04/26/2023.
CK’s statements to polid iion for prote order are not true. I never engaged in any behavior to harass or defame CK， I never had any iion to harass or defame CK. As a woman who was deceived， manipulated， hurt deeply for seven years by the man I loved deeply， all my lawful aimate purpose of tag him was just to seek for closure and solution as he promised before.
Despite my fiveness & seek for closure， CK manipulated， set me up starting from April， defamed me for harassment & defamation， forced me to endure severe emotional & financial suffering. Due to the heavy burden of attorney’s fee， I could not even afford to pay tuition fee， I could not even afford the medical treatment due to the the physical pain aional distress caused by CK’s sexual violend emotional abuse.
This is a true copy of the first message I sent to 05/10/2023， showing that I have been suffering severe physical aional paio CK’s behaviors.
Below two sshots are true copies showing that my two ats of Little Red Book were both reported on 05/10/2023， after I sent essage o. This is part of CK’s tactic to set me up， to trap me to tact him， so he revenge me.
Exhibit 21: CK has been Stalkih Secret At Since 04/24/ 2023
CK has been monit/stalking me on Little Red Book， Himalaya since 04/24/2023， with secret at.
He visited me 118 times in several days.
After I received the temporary prote order， some individuals with IP from a came to follow me， and ask“if this is CK?” without any text， or ence me to tact him or expose him. I suspect their purpose.
Exhibit 22: My Ret Diagnose from Doctor: Severe Depression & Ay & PTSD
Sie April， I have been living under severe pain， severe fear， severe depression， severe ay and severe PTSD due to CK’s insult， deception， threats and revenge.
Below are true and correct copies of my diagnose from doctor and therapist retly
From the very first time that I met 2016 through all the way through April 2023， on multiple occasions， I asked CKabout his marital status， and was sistently assured that he was single or unmarried. This turns out to be a lie， and CK already admitted it multiple times on April 24， 2023.
Should I know that all CK was looking for from me was just an affair with the be of sex， I would never i with him or eain any of his requests to meet， let alone having romantic or intimate activities with him. What I wanted was serious relationship and marriage.
Should I know that CK was married， I would never i with him or eain any of his requests to meet， let alone having romantic or intimate activities with him.